Trick or treating on Franklin Street was always without
incident. In those days the residents of
just about every house knew the neighborhood kids would be coming by, so we
did. The best I can remember we had
permission to knock on all the doors in our block and in the next block, but
since mom and dad didn't know many people on Franklin Street beyond those two
blocks, we didn't go.
As a kid, I never challenged the parental decision for our
fun-trek on Franklin Street to only include those two blocks of houses. I do know they were safer days for the
Halloween activities back then. We didn't worry about being kidnapped or any other
malicious crimes being committed. The
main "sermon" we got before Trick-or-Treating was to watch out for
cars and don't get run over.
I have spent some time looking at the Halloween tradition
this week. To make my mind more muddy
than usual, I visited websites describing the events and origin of Halloween.
To my surprise, the actual origin is a cause for major disagreement. While some argue it was started by the pagans
as a celebration things associated with death, there are others who actually
claim its origin was Christian in nature.
I am not going to argue nor debate either side, mainly because I found
another website which actually made some sense to me.
I know there is some fear in the parents of younger
children, that the violence and gore associated with Halloween and its
decorations, goes too far beyond the cute little Casper the Friendly Ghost
costumes. I, myself, do not like those
decorations and costumes which are so graphic concerning mutilated bodies and
such. The website I found which made
some sense to me causes me to be aware of those gruesome visuals and avoid them
for the sake of the little children.
That being said, the costume of Superman or Snow White on a
four-year old is cute. It's an exciting
time for the kids to go knocking on the neighbors' doors and get a treat of some
kind while showing off their costumes.
That is one night in the year we leave the porch lights on and welcome
the kids to knock on our door so we can give them some candy or other treat. The other 364 nights during the year, we
leave our porch lights off, and do not want a bunch of kids on our porches,
because we are inside our domain and do not wish to be interrupted.
That's what I got from the other website. Halloween could be a fun time for neighbors
to enjoy meeting and visiting with each other, getting to know the people who
live close by, and even establishing a friendly relationship by learning their
names, their kid's names, and even their pet's name. The writer of that website has uncovered an
interesting concept that is almost identical to the way we are to be toward
each other in the church.
I suppose I can summarize the Halloween controversy by
saying if you are comfortable with the things associated with death and evil
spirits, Halloween is your day. As a
better suggestion, and since this is another of the holidays that is really
"for the kids," let's make an exerted effort to see that the kids
have a fun experience, a happy memory of home, and relate it with the night the
whole neighborhood was having a good time together.
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