"Whoever
claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does
not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom
they have not seen.
21 And he has given us
this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister"
1 John 4:20-21
Early
mornings are usually not my thing, but one morning recently I found myself
awake at 4 AM. Not being able to go back
to sleep, I reached for the remote control and started some intense channel
surfing. I could not find a thing I
wanted to watch......that is until I noticed the Hallmark Channel had reruns of
the 1960's show, "Mr. Ed." For
the benefit of those whose culture is different from mine, I will explain that
Mr. Ed was a talking horse. His owner,
Wilbur, was the only one he talked to, but Ed and Wilbur carried on complete
conversations. The talked about neighborhood things, and usually there was a
scolding in store for Mr. Ed since he got caught regularly stealing apples from
the neighbor's apple tree.
Oh,
the neighbor, Roger. He was not fond of
any kind of animals and having a horse living in the barn next door was a
constant point of neighborhood disagreement. Wilbur and Roger were pretty good
friends except when it came to the horse. And on most occasions, when those two were
having one of their neighborly heated arguments, Mr. Ed would sneak away for another stolen apple.
It
was following one of those arguments that Wilbur was complaining to Mr. Ed
about Roger. Right there in the 4 AM
hour, on my HDTV in a black and white comedy rerun, Mr. Ed confided in Wilbur
that he needed to be more forgiving toward his neighbor. As Wilbur praised the
suggestion from Mr. Ed, it made me wonder if a talking horse might be something
I need......or maybe we all need.
Even
in the church we could use some improvement on the ways we have chosen to
settle our disagreements. Brotherly love is an excellent theme and one we hear
about often. Still the above verses let us know that John directly addresses
the subject in terms of black and white, with apparently no areas of gray. We cannot love God while hating each other.
Look
at the second sentence from 1 John again, "For whoever does not love their brother and
sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen."
Biblical verses like these need
no more explanation. We know what they
mean.
I
must tell you there was a little more to the Mr. Ed story. After Ed's
revelation that Wilbur should be more forgiving, Wilbur was quick to point out
he and Roger would get along fine if it were not for the misbehavior of Mr.
Ed. That's it. We, too, can blame our bitter feelings toward
a brother, on someone else. But when I
go back and look again at the words of 1 John, there is nothing there that lets
me place the blame on anyone but me!
One
time Jesus was asked, "Which is the greatest commandment?"
Matthew 22 records the answer, "Love the Lord your
God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind . 38 This
is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as
yourself."
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