It's been a lot of years but I still remember how excited we
were that mom and dad were going to a school reunion over the weekend, and we,
my older brother and I, didn't have to go.
We had been in previous years when we were younger, and it was always a good
time to get up a basketball game or a baseball game if there were enough kids
there. This time, we got to stay home and
be the men of the house.
We hooked up with a couple of the other guys from church and
did some cruising, looking for others we knew, and sometimes even talking about
girls. We found ourselves at the A &
W Root Beer stand and decided we would pool our money and buy a gallon of root
beer. Then we all headed to our house to
watch the late show on TV and drink all the root beer we could drink. I thought about that night while surfing
through a facebook page about our home town, an there were pictures of the A
& W. About all I remember about the
late show on TV that night is, I had made myself sick on root beer and didn't
feel like being sociable or watching movies.
While all that was going on, mom and dad were visiting with
old friends and family at the school reunion.
I wondered if they were having a good time, talking about all their new
ailments, and especially their next doctor appointments. No doubt some were showing pictures of their
kids while telling stories about their school days.
Times have changed.
Most kids don't have to be teen-agers to be home alone these days. I haven't checked this, but I doubt if A
& W sells root beer in a brown glass gallon jug anymore. Even the late shows aren't worth
watching. Ok, I'll continue to let you
know I have had my share of doctor appointments. The refrigerator in my kitchen used to be
covered with pictures colored by the grandkids.
Now it's covered with those doctor appointment cards.
All those changes, and I haven't even mentioned I used to
like the color of green, but now my favorite color is blue. At some point during my lifetime, my
preference in favorite colors changed and I can't tell you when or why it
happened.
My space is limited here, but I am going to ask, how do you
handle change? Sometimes I wish for the
good 'ole days and sometimes I welcome
change. How about you? Are there any noteworthy changes that have
happened to you? Let me list a few and
you can see if there are any which apply.
Weight change, hair color change, job change, address change, school
change, church change, etc. Wouldn't it
be nice if there were things in life we could count on being the same, never
changing?
As long as we are alive, we will face changes. That is part of life itself. But hang your hat on this truth from the book
of James in the New Testament, "
Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the
heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." God doesn't change. He is seeking you with his love, his grace,
and his forgiveness. Hang on to your
unchanging God. He will be hanging on to
you.
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